Henry’s (and Halia’s!) World

Their story from conception to the present



Patient beware . . . . .

Filed under: Expectant Parents — Ada at 8:00 am on Thursday, December 9, 2004
© Copyright Ada Kanu 2012

For repeat moms-to-be or anyone who goes to a hospital, I’d like to share a recent experience I had at a local obstetrician office.

Earlier that week my regular obstetrician (OB) stopped seeing me because my health insurance had changed (through no fault of mine, the appointment line assured me that my insurance was accepted, but that’s a story for another time).

So at 22-weeks along I was scrambling around looking for a replacement OB, and found one 10-minutes away from home.

Before they would commit to seeing me as a patient I had to fill out a medical history questionnaire for the office coordinator to go over, and because my pregnancies have never been simple I used more than the normal one sheet of paper to explain my history and despite that I got a phone call 2-days later saying that I had been accepted to the program and had my 1st appointment the following Monday.

So I arrive with the family in tow and will admit it was a very pleasant experience, a far cry from what I’ve become accustomed to at doctor offices, so after a Q & A session with the physician he casually states that he might have to transfer me to a high risk hospital as I was more complicated than they normally see at their clinic.

I didn’t get a follow up appointment when checking out but was told the nurse would call me the next day, I guess that served as the doom to come so as soon as I got home I started searching for high risk physicians that participate in my health and was only able to find one in the entire state.

At 7:30 am the next morning I get a call from the receptionist that I would be receiving a certified letter in the mail referring me to high-risk unit for my continued prenatal care, I was still shocked even though I had suspected it might happen. The high risk specialist agreed to see me and was as baffled as I was that the doctors office treated me the way they did, and to make matters worst, they wrote in my medical records that they had sent a certified letter (which I still haven’t received) and it leaves me wondering about the quality of their work since a certified letter is something easily proved.

So what I want to leave you all that will read this, patient beware, though as the layman in this case you’d expect the staff employed by the hospital to know what health insurance plans they participate in, what kinds of patients they see, to avoid unpleasant surprises, ask, ask and ask again. I’d rather have an upset employee that thinks I’m trying to do their job, than having to change 3 doctors in a month

Thanks for listening.

Pregnancy, Estrogen, and Women

Filed under: Articles — Ada at 7:52 am on Sunday, December 5, 2004
© Copyright Ada Kanu 2012

What a woman understands

Pregnancy, Estrogen, and Women

PREGNANCY Q & A &more!

Q: Should I have a baby after 35?
A: No, 35 children is enough.

Q: I’m two months pregnant now. When will my baby move?
A: With any luck, right after he finishes college.

Q: What is the most reliable method to determine a baby’s sex?
A: Childbirth.

Q: My wife is five months pregnant and so moody that sometimes she’s borderline irrational.
A: So what’s your question?

Q: My childbirth instructor says it’s not pain I’ll feel during labor, but pressure. Is she right?
A: Yes, in the same way that a tornado might be called an air current.

Q: When is the best time to get an epidural?
A: Right after you find out you’re pregnant.

Q: Is there any reason I have to be in the delivery room while my wife is in labor?
A: Not unless the word “alimony” means anything to you.

Q: Is there anything I should avoid while recovering from childbirth?
A: Yes, pregnancy.

Q: Do I have to have a baby shower?
A: Not if you change the baby’s diaper very quickly.

Q: Our baby was born last week. When will my wife begin to feel and act normal again?
A: When the kids are in college.

“ESTROGEN ISSUES”
10 WAYS TO KNOW IF YOU HAVE “ESTROGEN ISSUES”

1. Everyone around you has an attitude problem.
2. You’re adding chocolate chips to your cheese omelet
3. The dryer has shrunk every last pair of your jeans.
4. Your husband is suddenly agreeing to everything you say.
5. You’re using your cellular phone to dial up every bumper sticker that says:
“How’s my driving-call 1- 800-”
6. Everyone’s head looks like an invitation to batting practice.
7. Everyone seems to have just landed here from “outer space.”
8. You can’t believe they don’t make a tampon bigger than Super Plus.
9. You’re sure that everyone is scheming to drive you crazy.
10. The ibuprofen bottle is empty and you bought it yesterday.

TOP TEN THINGS ONLY WOMEN UNDERSTAND
10. Cats’ facial expressions.
9. The need for the same style of shoes in different colors.
8. Why bean sprouts aren’t just weeds.
7. Fat clothes.
6. Taking a car trip without trying to beat your best time.
5. The difference between beige, ecru, cream, off-white, and eggshell.
4. Cutting your hair to make it grow.
3. Eyelash curlers.
2. The inaccuracy of every bathroom scale ever made.
AND, the Number One thing only women understand: OTHER WOMEN

Courtesy of Nina Camp

Funny but true story

Filed under: Expectant Parents — Ada at 1:05 pm on Saturday, December 4, 2004
© Copyright Ada Kanu 2012

A friend of the family had gone to visit her folks back home in and she came back 6-months pregnant, by her boyfriend. She’s real tall and just wore baggy clothes that she had her husband fooled (now I ask how could they lie in the same bed and he not know, but that’s another story).

Anyway auntie goes into the labor one night watching TV with hubby, so she just walks into the bathroom, pushes that baby out without a groan and goes back to watching TV leaving the baby in the tub.

Her hubby goes to use the bathroom later to find a whimpering new born, yeah there where fireworks and they ended giving up the baby for adoption, but I still shake my head in confusion how that angel survived such an ordeal, just weird.

Anesthesia

Filed under: Expectant Parents — Ada at 1:43 pm on Friday, December 3, 2004
© Copyright Ada Kanu 2012

I had an epidural during my first delivery and it went off without a hitch the second delivery really has me scared about asking for anesthesia this time.

My water was broken around 7:30 pm and I started active labor (without pitocin, thank goodness) around 9:00pm and asked for an epidural and it all went downhill from there.

Every time I’d get a contraction my back and left leg went numb with pain, if that baby hadn’t come out 15 minutes later I would have gotten upset with someone in that room.

The anesthesiologist was in the room the whole time and kept telling me “it’s not supposed to hurt….. blah blah” and with the pain I’ve been having in my back recently I’m really considering not asking for an epidural at all.

I am thinking of alternative methods this time around; aromatherapy, homeopathy, hypnobirthing and water birth.

Homemade wipes

Filed under: Expectant Parents — Ada at 8:02 pm on Thursday, December 2, 2004
© Copyright Ada Kanu 2012

I got these wonderful recipes from a friend of mine and of which we’re members on a baby board , and with a tight budget this sounds just like a winner!

For the mommies on a budget like me, here are 2 great recipes to make your own homemade wipes. I had a mom that sent them with her baby to the nursery I worked in and found that they worked better and smelled wonderful! I personally prefer the first recipe and that’s the one the mother used she also used lavender scented baby oil and wash to give them an awesome fresh smell!

rocking horse

BABY WIPES RECIPE #1

Step One

Strong paper towels work the best.
Cut one roll of paper towels in half.
Take out the core so wipes pull out of the center.

Step Two

Make solution.

2 cups water
1/2 cup of baby oil
1/2 cup baby magic baby bath

Step Three

Place 1/2 roll of paper towels in container.
Pour solution over towels.
Store in container. Makes 2 1/2 rolls.

rocking horse

BABY WIPES RECIPE #2

Step One

Strong paper towels work the best.
Cut one roll of paper towels in half.
Take out the core so wipes pull out of the center.

Step Two

Make solution.

1 Cup Boiling Water
1 Tablespoon Baby Lotion
1 Tablespoon Baby soap
1 Tablespoon Baby Oil

Step Three

Place 1/2 roll of paper towels in container.
Pour solution over towels.
Store in container. Makes 1/2 roll.

Ryan

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